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Embracing Imperfection: My Journey from Perfectionism to Balance

October 5, 2024

As a professional past life regression hypnotherapist, I am dedicated to helping people navigate their paths to healing and transformation, guiding them to become their true selves. Today, I want to share my personal journey with perfectionism, a topic close to my heart.


From a young age, I was often told by my mother that I was perfect. Her praise and admiration for my achievements planted the seeds of perfectionism within me. I grew up believing that my worth was tied to flawless performance, and this belief eventually morphed into an almost obsessive-compulsive drive to achieve perfection in everything I did.


When people told me that perfectionism was an illusion, I couldn't comprehend it. My mother's words echoed in my mind, reinforcing the idea that perfection was attainable because she believed I was perfect. This belief left me confused and perplexed whenever I encountered the notion that perfection didn't exist.


Over time, I began to understand the transient nature of life. Our desires, identities, and circumstances are constantly evolving, influenced by the natural aging process and changes in our environment. This realization helped me see that perfection is not a static goal but an ever-shifting target that can never truly be hit.


The relentless pursuit of perfection left me exhausted, both mentally and physically. The constant striving wore me down until I reached a turning point where I sought balance in my life. Embracing this balance allowed me to appreciate the perfection of a moment, just as it is, and to find relaxation in self-love, no matter where I stood.


Today, I still strive for excellence, but with a different mindset. I've come to enjoy the pursuit of excellence as a dynamic journey, one that evolves with my desires and goals. I no longer burden myself with the toxic need to be perfect. Instead, I aim to surpass my previous achievements out of genuine enjoyment and passion, not obligation.


In embracing imperfection, I've found a profound sense of peace and fulfillment. I've learned to cherish each moment and to love myself for who I am, wherever I am on my journey. This shift has allowed me to help others with even greater empathy and understanding, guiding them to find their own paths to healing and transformation. 


I found Hypnotherapy and vibrational healing the most effective tool that holds the answer to many of our most personal questions and transformative healing.

If you'd like to work out any issues you have with perfectionism, or any other sub-conscious programs that plague you, call or text me at: 

503-764-5566

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